A little warning here. The rest of this post took on a bitter, sarcastic tone. I ask for your forgiveness in advance.
Richard got a call from Jim. He didn't take it. The message was he wanted to speak to Richard about the money I was demanding. Jim said he would send an email regarding the "issue." ISSUE? Is that what this is? An ISSUE?
Oh, Lord! So much of this really would be funny if it weren't so tragic!
The negotiation for the return of the cash began via email. Here's Jim's email to Richard:
My talking points in a future phone call will be this:
· Shawn is asking for remuneration of $500. She says you loaned Jaymie money, Jaymie says you did give her money at times but it was never a loan.
· Any items that were given to Jaymie were returned to Shawn on Friday. This should end any conversation with her.
Any talk that needs to be done, should go between you and Jaymie. Since Jaymie does not feel comfortable talking with you, she requests that you work through me.
All I need to know is that you agree with these 2 points and the matter is closed.
Rich- I really liked you, and had hopes to build you into my key persons network of referrals. This probably will not happen.
Because my faith is important to me, I was hoping to be help to you in your restoration and rebuilding your personal life, as I have training and experience in these areas. Based on where this is now, I don’t think I can be of a personal help to you anymore.
JimI gotta dissect this a bit.
First: REMUNERATION?? What? Come on! No one is impressed with your big words, Homeboy.
Second: Richard gave her money AT TIMES?? How about every time they fucked and then some!? Deal with it! Your baby girl is as close to a hooker as she can be without her own corner and a pimp!
Third: You think this should END any conversation with me? You would rather talk to the old man that banged your daughter and then left her out to dry than me? Whatever. You're a chickenshit.
And, Last...but most certainly not least: You had hoped to work with Richard and now that PROBABLY won't happen?? What would make you SURE it could never happen? If Richard had slept with Jaymie AND your wife? Would that do it? Seriously, Dude. Must be that solid Christian faith. You are just chalked full of forgiveness. Either that, or you were really hoping Richard could help you reel in a much needed client base. I'd guess it's the latter, but that's just my take.
Richard sent this reply only after he let me proof read it and edit it to my satisfaction.
Thanks for your thoughts. I want to first tell you I apologize for the affair I had with your daughter Jaymie. I am deeply sorry for the hurt I have caused so many and that includes you and Karen.
You say “any talk that needs to be done should go between you and Jaymie.” But that is not the case. I hurt Shawn badly. She was deeply impacted by this. So she is involved as well. Half of what Jaymie received was Shawn’s money. Shawn wants it back and I support her in this request.
So here is what I suggest:
1. Write a check to Shawn or to the charity of your choice and mail it to Shawn. I am suggesting $500 but will take any reasonable amount. If you are tight for Christmas, it can be after the first of the year.
2. This will bring us to complete closure. Neither Shawn nor I will have any further uninvited contact with your family.
I appreciate your offer to help me and I know it is sincere. Jaymie often spoke of your and Karen’s Christian values. Shawn told me that when she called you, the two of you prayed together. This is a gesture that I will never forget. I believe you are a good man. I also believe my proposal is the right thing to do.
I'll give Richard a nod of appreciation here. He followed my lead. He wouldn't say the money was a loan, but he wouldn't deny it either. He asked me, "If I do this for you, will it help you heal?"
"Yes. For sure. I need this."
Problem was, I would need a hell of a lot more before it was over.